Yesterday, October 1, 2007, I watched the first episode of “Aliens in America.” It’s a new show on the CW Network that I encourage you to watch. The story is about a family who takes in a foreign exchange student from Pakistan, for some very selfish reasons. With false expectations, as well. Last night, during the very first episode, the student almost got sent home! He just wasn’t what they had hoped he would be!

The turning point was when he told his story of loss in a way that somehow made the host mother realize that this was a vulnerable young man who was very much like her own son, whom she had set out to “rescue” from alienation himself. Her son was alienated by his immature peers. Yet compared to what he saw the foreigner enduring, he quickly concluded that his own abuse was nothing. What’s more: The foreigner showed himself to be more mature and humble than any other character in the whole show!

“Aliens in America” could not have come at a more perfect time in my life. For years, I’ve been writing about “aliens.” Not people from a foreign country, but people like you and me. People who often speak truth to power. People who believe in empowering other "aliens." The aliens of whom I speak are survivors of sexual and domestic violence, along with advocates of those survivors, who have not found a warm welcome for their message or story in the community of faith. 

Chances are you are one of these people who has been scorned, stomped on, and alienated because you have challenged the institutional church to make changes in how it responds to violence or prejudice against survivors.  Most of the violence was against women and children, even though many of those children who were violated are now men. Men who, along with their  female counterparts, are often more mature than so many of the men and women who have been far from welcoming.

Yesterday was a new beginning for me as I launched the third edition of www.takecourage.org

This site has served as a beacon to many struggling people for years. I hope it continues to do so.

Yet it is taking on a new life, thanks to my volunteer, virtual assistant Renae. This survivor had a vision. She challenged me, believed in me, and I trusted her to help me produce a much more user-friendly site, complete with this daily blog. I've done a lot of additional writing for the site, so please take a close look.

You do not need to sign up.  Nor will you be receiving any annoying reminders to say there is a new entry.  You can expect to find a new entry, however, every weekday.  So you can read it like the morning newspaper or save your reading until the end of the week.  Most entires will be much shorter than this one.

While the blog is not interactive per se, I do hope that you will sometimes drop in by e-mail and tell me what you think. In so doing, you may be helping to shape the direction I take in this outreach of writing. I cannot promise to answer every e-mail--my inbox is becoming almost impossible some days. Yet I read everything I get. Thank you for your kind words and encouragement.

“Aliens in America” is something I’ll watch with interest. It is most interesting because of the way it exposes how we are all prone to treat people whom we erroneously perceive to be a threat to our old way of thinking.  Therefore, it is as applicable to my readers who come to this site as it will be to the new group of "aliens" that have become a second passion for me in writing. 

Please tune in tomorrow to find out more.