Because, in a sense, you were. Adults can also be victims--they always are when a professional crosses sexual boundaries in any way. For support and more help in understanding this, contact FaithTrust Institute or AdvocateWeb.org in addition to exploring this site thoroughly.
Dee Ann Miller is the
author of Enlarging Boston's Spotlight: A Call for Courage, Integrity, and Institutional Transformation (2017) How Little We Knew: Collusion and Confusion with Sexual Misconduct (1993)
and
The Truth about Malarkey (2000)